If I am Gay, Bisexual, or Heterosexual? Gender Test

1. How do you feel when you see someone of the same gender you find attractive?

I feel excited and curious.
I appreciate their looks but don’t feel strongly.
I feel indifferent and don’t think much about it.
I feel uncomfortable or avoid looking.

2. How do you react when someone of the same gender flirts with you?

I enjoy it and may flirt back.
I find it flattering but don’t reciprocate.
I feel awkward but try to be polite.
I feel uncomfortable and try to end the interaction quickly.

3. How do you imagine your ideal romantic relationship?

With someone of the same gender.
With someone of the opposite gender, but I’m open to other possibilities.
I haven’t thought much about it.
With someone of the opposite gender exclusively.

4. Do you enjoy spending time in LGBTQ+ spaces or events?

Yes, I feel at home and enjoy the experience.
I find them interesting but don’t attend often.
I rarely attend but don’t mind them.
No, I avoid those spaces altogether.

5. Have you ever felt attracted to someone of the same gender?

Yes, multiple times.
Yes, but it was brief.
I’ve wondered about it but never experienced attraction.
No, I have never felt attracted to someone of the same gender.

6. How do you feel about same-gender relationships?

I fully support them and find them beautiful.
I support them but don’t see myself in one.
I’m not sure how I feel about them.
I’m uncomfortable with same-gender relationships.

7. Do you often fantasize about same-gender intimacy?

Yes, it’s something I think about often.
I’ve thought about it, but not frequently.
I’ve thought about it once or twice.
No, I don’t think about it at all.

8. How do you feel about same-gender couples in public?

I think it’s great and it doesn’t bother me at all.
I’m fine with it, but it makes me a little uncomfortable.
I feel uncomfortable seeing them in public.
I think it’s wrong and I don’t support it.

9. Have you ever been in a relationship with someone of the same gender?

Yes, I have been in a same-gender relationship.
I’ve thought about it but never acted on it.
I have not, but I’m open to it.
No, I’ve never been in a same-gender relationship.

10. How do you feel when you see two people of the same gender kiss?

I feel positive about it and am comfortable.
I’m neutral, it doesn’t bother me.
I feel uncomfortable, but I don’t say anything.
I feel disgusted and try to avoid it.

11. Do you watch LGBTQ+ movies or TV shows?

Yes, I enjoy them and find them relatable.
I watch occasionally, but it’s not a regular interest.
I haven’t really watched many but am open to it.
I avoid watching them altogether.

12. How do you feel when you think about being in a same-gender relationship?

I find the idea exciting and appealing.
It’s something I could see myself in, but I haven’t yet.
I’m not sure how I feel about it.
I don’t feel comfortable with the idea.

13. Do you think about gender and sexuality often?

Yes, I think about it often and am exploring my feelings.
I think about it occasionally, but it’s not a big focus.
I rarely think about it.
I don’t think about it at all.

14. How do you feel when you are attracted to someone of the same gender?

I feel excited and happy about it.
I feel curious and unsure.
I feel confused and try to ignore it.
I feel uncomfortable and try to suppress it.

15. Do you think your feelings might change over time?

Yes, I think they might change as I explore more.
It’s possible, but I’m not sure.
I don’t think my feelings will change.
No, I feel certain about my orientation.

16. Have you ever had a crush on a fictional character of the same gender?

Yes, multiple times.
Yes, but only once or twice.
Not really, but I’ve wondered about it.
No, never.